Prostate Massage – The Ultimate Male Orgasm

There are lots of erogenous zones on the human body – and dedicating a few tantalizing hours to finding and exploring them can turn average sex into amazing sex. For most people, the female erogenous zones are common knowledge, but the equivalents for men are less well known. Did you know, for example, that the prostate is also known as the male G-spot, and that stimulating this area can result in a pretty special orgasm? If this is all news to you, keep reading to learn more!

• The prostate – the male G-spot
• Everything you need to know about the prostate
• Prostate massage – a how-to guide
• Five tips for prostate massage#The-prostate-–-the-male-G-spot
• Bonus: Even more prostate facts!

The prostate – the male G-spot

We’ve all heard of the G-spot in women – and men can be almost competitive in their efforts to find and stimulate this well-known pleasure point. The male G-spot, on the other hand, is somewhat more of a mystery; remaining elusive to all but the select few who attempt to locate and explore it. However, it’s worth putting in the work, as the male G-spot is actually easier to locate than the female G-spot – and it can produce male orgasms that are just as intense. The prostate is a walnut-sized organ weighing 20 to 25 grams, located just beneath the bladder and around the urethra. This male G-spot is sometimes referred to as the P-spot. So, that’s the basics covered – but there’s still a lot more to learn.

Everything you need to know about the prostate

The prostate plays an important role in male sexuality and reproduction. It produces around 20 to 30% of a man’s semen and is controlled by testosterone, and is classed as part of the internal male reproductive system, alongside the testicles, epididymis, seminal ducts, and seminal vesicles. The external male sex organs are the penis and the scrotum. The prostate is made up of glands, connective tissue, and muscle fibers. We’ve already mentioned that it’s responsible for producing some of a man’s semen, but the prostate’s main job is actually to help keep sperm healthy. During sex, the prostate produces secretions that pass through the urethra and provide energy for the sperm. These secretions – which contain fructose, minerals, and enzymes – enable the sperm cells to swim. The fructose powers up the sperm while the enzymes liquefy the ejaculate, further boosting the sperms’ motility. The secretions also contain alkaline substances, which protect the sperm against the acidic environment inside the woman’s vagina. And finally, the prostate is responsible for the actual delivery of the sperm; its muscle cells contract on ejaculation. So, the prostate is a pretty important organ, and that’s before we even consider the fact that stimulating it can result in amazing orgasms. And the best part? All it needs is a little massage! Read on to learn how.

Prostate massage – a how-to guide

You’ll be pleased to hear that that’s the end of the theory – now it’s time to put all that knowledge into practice! How exactly do you massage the prostate to get that extra-special, intense orgasm we’ve been talking about? Firstly, we need to learn the difference between direct and indirect prostate massage:

• Direct prostate massage: With direct prostate massage, a finger is inserted into the anus to explore and locate the prostate. You’ll find it about five to seven centimeters in, towards the abdominal wall. If you find it, massaging with a finger is a great way to stimulate the organ.
• Indirect prostate massage: Instead of stimulating the prostate inside the body, you can also stimulate it externally. This is done by stimulating the perineum, which is located between the anus and the scrotum. Applying gentle pressure to this area will also stimulate the prostate without inserting anything into the anus.

If you’ve never attempted to stimulate the prostate via the back entrance, indirect prostate massage is a great way to enjoy the intense orgasms associated with the male G-spot.

Of course, the prostate can also be stimulated by a penis when two male partners have sex with anal penetration. Standing up is the best position for hitting the male G-spot. In male/female couples, the woman can also wear a strap-on, or you could opt for one of the many anal sex toys that have been specifically designed for prostate massage. Special prostate massagers are shaped like a U or a V, which enables you to switch easily between the various modes or vibration settings that your toy might have. Butt plugs, anal vibrators, or anal beads also work well.

There are a few things to remember to make sure that prostate massage is comfortable and has the desired effect.

Five tips for prostate massage

Lube, lube, and more lube: Lubricant is useful for so much more than just vaginal penetration. Don’t be stingy with the lube when you’re exploring backdoor play. Apply lube to the finger and to the anus itself to make the sensations more comfortable. Special anal lubricants – like the products in pjur’s anal range – are the best option. Whether you opt for a silicone or water-based lube, we have the right product for your needs.

If you’re using an anal sex toy such as a prostate massager, it will probably have a silicone surface. In this case, you should choose a water-based lubricant, which will be gentler on your toy. If you’re using a finger, you can opt for a water-based lube or a silicone-based lube like pjur analyse me! Relaxing.

Hygiene is key: This applies to both partners: the person who is having their prostate or perineum stimulated, and the person doing the stimulating. The hands, anus, and intimate area in general should be clean. For the anal area, an anal douche is a great way to prepare.

Prepare thoroughly: To prepare for prostate massage, you need to choose a relaxing location where you both feel comfortable. You’ll also need to prepare the anus, if you’re planning to explore direct prostate massage. As the anus isn’t usually penetrated all that frequently, it’s a good idea to do some stretching in advance to prepare for penetration. There are special sex toys you can buy for this purpose, or you can (carefully!) use your finger.

The key to stretching is to go gently: It’s really important not to overdo it. The anal region is very sensitive, which is why so many people have initial concerns about penetration. Combining direct and indirect prostate massage is a great way to get started. Start on the outside and then slowly progress to inserting a finger into the anus. Always pay attention to your partner’s responses and be open with one another if you don’t like something.

Make it a double? If you’re new to prostate massage and anal stimulation, it can be helpful to start by massaging the anus with one hand or finger, and stimulating your partner’s penis with the other, in the way you usually might. You might also want to masturbate while your anal region is stimulated by your partner. This will provide a little distraction while also increasing your chances of achieving that intense orgasm you’re looking for. Experiment and see what works for you and your partner. 😊

Bonus: Even more prostate facts!

To finish, let’s take a look at some more medical facts about the prostate. Scientists believe that the pressure applied to the prostate during massage improves circulation, which in turn helps the body get rid of harmful substances. This could help to heal any irritation or pain experienced on ejaculation. Massage is also thought to improve the urinary stream, as it relieves some of the pressure that the prostate puts on the urethra. That intense orgasm is just one of many benefits of prostate massage. 😉

That said, not all couples are interested in anal stimulation or regular anal play. And that’s no problem! We’re all different, and we all have different preferences. So if you find that prostate massage isn’t for you, be open about it and try something different next time. And if you do enjoy it – look forward to some incredible orgasms! 😉

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