Sex in the shower – A how-to guide

Sex in the shower can be a scintillating sensory experience that takes pleasure and intimacy to new heights. While a steamy encounter under hot running water might look effortless in the movies, the practicalities can prove slippery in real life. But fear not – with our simple tips and tricks, you’ll both be able to enjoy a little not-so-clean fun in the shower.

• Perfect preparation
• The best positions for pleasure and safety
• Sensual shower rituals
• The perfect in-shower lube

Perfect preparation

Before you dive head-first into the steamy world of sex in the shower, remember that preparation is key to a successful and safe experience. Although it might look easy, having sex under running water comes with its own unique set of challenges. Here are our top tips to help you prepare:

Safety first:

Before you do anything else, it’s important to make sure that your shower is safe for sex. Add a non-slip mat to make sure that the floor doesn’t get slippery.

Keep an eye on the temperature:

Check the water temperature before things start to heat up; you want the flow to be pleasantly warm but not too hot. Very hot water can irritate the sensitive skin in your intimate area, which could make the experience a whole lot less pleasurable. Make sure that the temperature will remain consistent throughout your in-shower experience.

Have your lubricant to hand:

Water can wash away the body’s natural lubrication, which can result in friction and discomfort. Use a silicone-based lubricant to make the experience more pleasurable and comfortable. Make sure your lubricant is close by so you can grab it quickly if you need it.

Set the scene:

Create a relaxing and intimate vibe in the shower by using soft lighting or even lighting a few candles. Choose some calming music that you both enjoy to set the scene and help you relax.

Taking the time to prepare will help ensure that your first forays into sex in the shower are passionate and unforgettable. If you feel safe and comfortable, you’ll be able to focus all your attention on feeling good and enjoying this intimate experience with your partner – without anything to distract you. 😉

The best positions for pleasure and safety

So, now you know how to prepare for successful shower sex – but choosing the right position during the main event is also essential for a safe and pleasurable experience. With limited space at your disposal and slippery surfaces all around, you’ll have to get creative and be a little more careful than usual to keep yourselves safe without dampening the passion. Here are our favourite positions for fun, pleasurable and safe sex in the shower:

Standing:

Standing is a classic position for sex in the shower, as both partners remain upright and can enjoy close, full-body contact. This hug-like position keeps you both stable and gives you plenty of skin-to-skin intimacy.

Against the wall:

Another position that works well in the shower is having one partner lean against the wall for support while the other partner penetrates them from behind. This position enables deeper penetration while also helping to keep both partners steady on their feet.

Seated:

If your shower has a built-in bench or a raised edge, sitting down can be a great way to have sex in the shower. One partner sits down while the other sits on top or kneels in front of them. This position is stable and comfortable for both partners.

When deciding on the best position for shower sex, it’s important to consider the preferences and boundaries of each partner and openly communicate any concerns either of you may have. With a little creativity and a bit of extra care, sex in the shower is a passionate adventure you can embark on together, while strengthening your bond and creating lasting memories.

Sensual shower rituals

Our everyday lives can be hectic, and the shower is often a haven of peace and relaxation in the midst of the chaos; a place where we can retreat and take the time to refresh, reset and even reconnect with those closest to us. The shower can be more than just an opportunity to wash – incorporating sensual rituals can transform it into a place of sensuality and pleasure.

One simple way to transform your shower into a sensual experience with your partner is to wash one another‘s body with a scented shower gel or soap. Take the time to enjoy your partner’s touch and appreciate the sense of closeness between you. This intimate gesture helps you connect with your partner and can inject new energy into your sex life.

Another way to pack even more pleasure into your shower is to give your partner a relaxing massage while the warm water cascades over your skin. Apply a massage gel and massage one another to relieve tension and stimulate the senses. This loving touch will help you both relax and build trust and connection in your relationship.

After your shower, you can gently dry one another and apply a calming lotion or body milk to your partner’s skin. This simple ritual is another opportunity for physical intimacy and is a way to show your appreciation and care for one another.

Sensual shower rituals are a great way to transform your shower into an opportunity for intimacy, relaxation and connection. By making a conscious choice to spend time on these rituals and on one another, we can deepen our connection with our partner and enrich our love lives.

The perfect in-shower lube

The right lubricant can make all the difference when it comes to enjoying an intimate experience in the shower – and we have a number of high-quality, versatile options for you to choose from. Here are our top-five lubricants that are ideal for use in the shower:

pjur AQUA: Water-based and kind to the skin, pjur AQUA is a perfect choice for use in the shower. It provides long-lasting lubrication for silky-smooth pleasure and washes off easily with water.

pjur med SENSITIVE: Developed especially for sensitive skin, this lubricant is the gentle option for shower sex. With calming ingredients like panthenol, this skin-friendly formula helps to prevent irritation.

pjur WOMAN Nude: pjur WOMAN Nude is the perfect choice for women who prefer natural ingredients. This fragrance-free, odourless formula is gentle on the skin and provides long-lasting lubrication.

pjur BACK DOOR Moisturising: Developed especially for anal use, this highly effective product provides long-lasting lubrication even in the shower. The water-based formula is easy to wash off and leaves no residue behind.

Whichever pjur lubricant you choose, you can rest assured that you’re getting a high-quality product for a smooth and pleasurable shower sex experience. Try out a few options to find the perfect lube to suit your needs. 😊

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