How to Get the Most Out of Your Sexuality: Extraordinary Sex Trends

There are so many ways to have extraordinary sex, and we’ve already discussed how to get the most out of your sexuality in an earlier article. But which sex trends are extraordinary, and what does extraordinary actually mean? Still looking for inspiration? Don’t click away! 😉

SEX: PLEASE, ANYTHING EXCEPT ORDINARY!

If we look at the word closer and demystify it, it clearly means having the sex you want! Anything is possible, anything that’s not ordinary! Because you’re certainly not ordinary, are you?

Extraordinary sex = getting the most out of your sexuality

We all secretly want to get the most out of our sexuality. It doesn’t matter whether you’re in a happy relationship, married, single or in polyamorous relationships. We all want passion to flow, our libidos to be red hot, and ideally for everyone involved to let themselves go and orgasm.

However, many couples or other relationship constellations often find themselves in a “sex rut”, where sex loses its natural passion. If this is you, then it’s time to look at new, extraordinary sex trends to spice things up or get inspired.

Touch me differently! Nothing happens without a sex bucket list

Sex trends are there to be tried out. Whether that’s new sex positions or spontaneous touching, or other very special things you might have put on your sex bucket list!

If you already have one: wonderful, time to get started. If you still don’t have one, we’re here to help. As promised, we’ve looked at the latest extraordinary sex trends for you, and decided on our top 5 for the perfect sex bucket list:

Sex trend 1: Play with different kinks

As we all already know, kinks or BDSM can really hot things up in the bedroom. This trend is about finding a way of incorporating all the kinks that arouse you into your sex life, like a colourful bouquet of kinks. Perhaps today you like the feel of latex on your skin and also want to wear stilettos in bed? Or maybe you’d rather teasing and ice cream, followed by some gentle pegging? Get the most out of your sexuality by varying your kinks, or even trying something new. Feel free to have extraordinary sex.

Sex trend 2: Cybersex or sex in the metaverse

Yes, you heard us right. The metaverse is gaining ground with sex as well, as it offers the chance to try out sex on another level, which can also be pretty extraordinary. You can visit virtual sex shops, or take a far closer look at many erotic ideas using VR glasses. In any case, for all the metaverse fans out there it’s certainly worth a go! For everyone else, there’s also “conventional” long-distance sex. It might be with a stranger or with your partner, using smartphones or remote-controlled toys. Give it a try and don’t forget the personal lubricant if you’re using toys.

Sex trend 3: Naturism?! Yes!

Being naked and accepting your body is a real trend, and that’s great news. But taking it a step further, naturist associations and nudist beaches are once again a top trend this summer. It doesn’t matter whether you get undressed, swim and sunbathe, or simply enjoy the countryside. Everyone should visit a nudist beach at least once (or more often if you enjoy yourself). Just make sure you follow the local rules! We’re not suggesting you have sex on a nudist beach, but you should definitely visit the beach and enjoy the feel of freedom. After all, it can act as unforgettable foreplay for you and your partner.

Sex trend 4: SEXpedition

Extraordinary sex in an out-of-the-ordinary location takes our 4^th spot, and is actually not a new trend at all. However, this way of spicing up sex has developed an exciting twist in recent years. Growing numbers of couples, in particular singles, are heading off on SEXpeditions. This is when a trip is completely geared to the sexual experience. That might be to a particularly “hot” destination, or simply mean that instead of staying in a family hotel, you choose an adults-only hotel. Having a private spa or jacuzzi on the roof can make it a spine-tingling experience. And don’t underestimate a camping trip here either, because outdoor sex can be very exciting and quite extraordinary in a tent. PS: Don’t forget to pack your personal lubricant and lingerie for your SEXpedition, and remember that having sex in public can be illegal 😉

Sex trend 5: What about a “footjob”?

We love handjobs! But only with the right personal lubricant.😊
Blowjobs are also consistently a hot change. But the new, old trend of footjobs is something you need to try too. Yes, we know, at first it sounds quite disconcerting. But new territory can be great for getting things sizzling in bed. How does it work? It’s quite straightforward: just like a handjob, but with feet. You might need a bit of skill and some practice, but once you’ve got the knack, the experience is really extraordinary.
PS: We really recommend getting a great pedicure first.

And finally, more inspiration for extraordinary sex. It might not be for everyone, but it’s still worth mentioning, as it could help you make the most of your sex life:

Sex trend: Swapping partners

This “practice”, also known as swinging, is when couples (generally couples) agree to be intimate with other people. There are different constellations for this, so it’s important that you define what you’re going to do first within your relationship. How far you want to go and whether it’s for you – well, that’s down to you. We can only say that if everyone involved consents, nothing will stand in the way of an extraordinary sex experience.

So, have extraordinary sex!

So, what do you think? Have the trends made it onto your sex bucket list, and are you inspired to get the most out of your sex life? It doesn’t matter what you do with these trends. Here are a few more suggestions for how you can make extraordinary sex part of your everyday routine, and things you need remember:

• Get each other excited more often ­­– don’t just let the flame go out.
• Compliments, hot touches, cuddles, even in public.
• Be creative and kinky! Get a bit dirtier every year.
• Work on each other and on your sex life, with a sex bucket list for example.
• Stand by each other and be self-confident, because it’s the best way of letting yourself go.
• Work on your orgasms, alone or together, and get to know what turns you on.

It doesn’t matter which sex trends appeal to you – just try something together, and even make up your own trends. Maybe you’ve already tried out a few possible “trends” in the bedroom. Now, take them to the next level. Enjoy getting the most out of your sexuality.

Let yourself go and discover how to get the most out of your sexuality!

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